Many parents wondered what is the best discipline they can do to a child who showed feeling of resistance against them. Most parents did not understand their role in disciplining their child. They pay more attention if their child misbehave. That was the reason why a child misbehave more because he wanted to be recognize to the feeling and attention he crave.

There are simple steps to be done that will help your child of his feeling of resistance:

Reward him with praise if they done something good. Acknowledge his good behavior. Hug him to show your concern to his welfare. Smile with him to ease the sign of misbehavior. Talk to him more often so that you will know his problem. It must consist direction. Don’t alienate yourself to him, it makes the matter worse. Telling stories is a good way to build a closer relationship. A child likes his parents to tell him stories most interesting. It encourages him to tell about himself.

Doing activities with him brings a good result. Play with him, a fun he likes best. Build trust and confidence. Don’t promise something that you cannot keep. Win his heart. Encourage him to follow a good example. Let him know that you love him. Make a way to discourage a behavior by telling him that a good behavior is always welcome by GOD. As GOD want their children to do more good than harm.

Listen to his feelings and try to find a way to overcome his resentment. Don’t always argue with him and push him hard. It will only makes things worse. Be flexible. Respect your child privacy as he need a place most comfortable to him.

This steps are only fraction to the many ways to solve the problem about child’s tantrum, anger, refusal and resentment to their parents. If this can be manage effectively, child will response positively and your effort will not be wasted.

Why most marriages failed? Divorce or dissolution of marriage plague humanity in most every nation. This was one of the problem facing the world today, on how to make a marriage work.  They have lost the desire for a special relationship with their mate.

Two people must learn to work together in marriage showing respect and love to each other. The biblical principle of wives submitting to their husbands and husband loving and honoring their wives were lacking. Establishing a family guidelines and tradition in an atmosphere of love and respect that gives a newly married couple a foundation to build their life and enjoy to the fullest. What it means is that they have that divine aspiration to live happily.

A commitment?… Building a special close relationship with his wife, strengthening the bond of togetherness is the most important aspect in life. If husband and wife work continuously at building their relationship with close bonding then there’s is no reason why they cannot settle their family differences in a better way and find an option or solution agreeable to both of them.

Nurturing a loving relationship requires sacrifice. A marital bonding is well worth time and effort, as they value their relationship and don’t want in anyway to loose it.

Husbands and wives who continually fighting each other over authority and control.. experience a level of conflict and misery that often lead to divorce. Husbands and wives who fully and mutually submit themselves  – usually find happiness and peace. When genuine love and respect prevails in marriage, they will learn much from each other by giving strength to their union, a lifelong commitment for a lasting relationship. Its beautiful living a life full of happiness and respect, sharing together in their hopes and dreams in most intimate way. But some of them don’t want to work it that way. They don’t have that divine guidance to see them through.

It is a joy for a happy marriage to have a loving and respectful children under their care living with respect and dedication to be a responsible adults. The problem in some of the married couple is their desire to opt out from the responsibility as parents. Their children are the one suffering from a broken relationship.

A crisis in child rearing was the result of a troubled marriage. The school were given the task of teaching their children instead of them about civility, respect and good virtue. Their own obligation as parents was now obsolete, their confidence and competence were in question.

As the children grow up, they were heavily influenced by the things they saw and the condition in which they lived. Their values were shaped by their experiences and the perspective of their parents. Children were more difficult to reach now and not easy to teach regarding values. Their concentration and perseverance were more fragile, their language and behavior more provocative.

Children seemingly incapable of following direction in listening while someone speaks. They cannot allow not being the center of attention. People around perceived teens as disrespectful, rude, irresponsible and wild. Why it happened? Who is to blame?

While parents have the opportunity to be the greatest influence to the lives of their children but it doesn’t always happen. When couple dissolved their marriage, they often justify their divorce that it is better for their children but they deprived significant amount of time with them.

Another cause of failure in rearing a child was that in our modern way of life, it is common for both husband and wife to work outside their home. The reason includes the perceive need for greater income and the mistaken assumption that having a career outside the home is more important than rearing children.

We believed it is now time for parents to change the way they look at their marriage vow. Children need their care and attention. The price is too high if parents are not ready for a change.