CAN YOU BE A GOOD FRIEND?

Young people like you felt proud of having a friend who are loyal and trustworthy whom you confides without fear. That’s the kind of person dependable in time of crisis.

Be kind in your assessment to others. Speak to them highly. The more you see them positively, the more you tend to be friendly with them. If you deal with people act as if they are already your long time friend. Acting this way learns you to be positive and more supportive to others. This will make you a friend worth having  whom others truly enjoy with you and be proud of.

Don’t attempt to change it to your own liking. There was no one exactly like you in the world. You liked them because you have the same thing in common. For the interest of others who look at things differently deepens your understanding and widen your circle of friends.

No one is perfect. Each of us has its own strength and uniqueness and weaknesses, too. Accepting them and understanding them will make you a better person. Don’t pretend to be a kind person you are not used to  be. BE Honest. Accept any mistakes you have done. Don’t hide them. They will appreciate if you are honest.

By joining any group will be your chances to make friends similar to your interest, likes and dislikes. It is a sure way of having many friends. Maturing your relationship with others will find happiness in doing an act of friendship. To win friends you must become attractive and socially poise as possible. Learn the trade to be socially acceptable to them.

Making other people feel good is a part of being gracious, and act learned only through repeated practice in actual life situation.

BUILD A POSITIVE SELF-CONCEPT

Having a positive outlook in life will mean that your perception is not limited to one focus. Do not aim for perfection because no one is perfect.  Each one of us was not perfectly molded to do things the way it should be. Although we have talents and skills but we also have our own limitation, too.

If you want to do something in mind, then do it well. Doing it right makes you gain more confidence and other areas of importance. Seat goals for the completion of certain project. They must be specific, attainable and reliable in order to ensure a greater chance of success.

Don’t mind too much about failures. Doing lot of things is always a trial and error endeavor. It is important to make it useful. If it works well beyond your expectation, then praise yourself and utilize it to the fullest. It may regain your self-worth as a person.  Be positive always. Turn every mistake into a learning experience. This will let you learn a lot.

If you want to help others especially those less fortunate, it gives you satisfaction knowing you were given the chance to help them.  A satisfaction that lightens your heart. If someone criticize you, it helps you to do things right. Constructive criticism is a tool to let you know of your inefficiency. This will guide you to build a positive self concept you want. Then you will understand that having a positive mind enhances your self-worth and importance.