As a child, it is your role to respect your parents. You are angry with your parents because you wanted to do things they don’t allow. You always late to go home. You were  with your friends. You don’t even help your parents in the household chores because you don’t like it. What you like is to be with them most of the time. You can’t blame your parents. What they did is best for you. What you did is only best for yourself and nothing else even if is not good for you.

Why not talk to your parents openly? It is now time for you to tell them what’s in your mind. Put an end to your conflict with them, they know better than you do. Ask your parents what are the things they don’t like for you to do. Ask them their limit for you so that you will be guided to avoid confrontation with them.

Give them a chance to know you better. If  your parents ask you what you were doing in school, answer them properly. Don’t lie to them. Be honest with yourself. Show them that you are a good child. Your parents are flexible at all times. They can grant privileges for you to enjoy. Don’t abuse their giving you limited freedom because this was the reason why they don’t like your ways in living with your own. Remember that you are not yet old enough to do for your own. You are still under their direction and protection. You do not have that liberty to go against them.

To have a close relationship with your parents, tell them whatever you did in your life the good things you did so that they can be proud of you. Let them exercise their rule as parents. And do also what is proper and the right things to do. Most of this misunderstanding is not coming from them but is coming directly from you. Remember you will become parents someday. You will understand how parents tried their best for the good of their child.

If time comes that you made a mistake in your decision that affected you, who will you to turn to help you? Parents are always have an open arms to welcome you even how stubborn you are because you are their son. Think twice. Ask yourself, am I right what I did? Am I old enough to ask independence to decide the best for myself?

You still need direction from them. Direction that will change your way of life to be better. Understand them, they will understand you.

Why most marriages failed? Divorce or dissolution of marriage plague humanity in most every nation. This was one of the problem facing the world today, on how to make a marriage work.  They have lost the desire for a special relationship with their mate.

Two people must learn to work together in marriage showing respect and love to each other. The biblical principle of wives submitting to their husbands and husband loving and honoring their wives were lacking. Establishing a family guidelines and tradition in an atmosphere of love and respect that gives a newly married couple a foundation to build their life and enjoy to the fullest. What it means is that they have that divine aspiration to live happily.

A commitment?… Building a special close relationship with his wife, strengthening the bond of togetherness is the most important aspect in life. If husband and wife work continuously at building their relationship with close bonding then there’s is no reason why they cannot settle their family differences in a better way and find an option or solution agreeable to both of them.

Nurturing a loving relationship requires sacrifice. A marital bonding is well worth time and effort, as they value their relationship and don’t want in anyway to loose it.

Husbands and wives who continually fighting each other over authority and control.. experience a level of conflict and misery that often lead to divorce. Husbands and wives who fully and mutually submit themselves  – usually find happiness and peace. When genuine love and respect prevails in marriage, they will learn much from each other by giving strength to their union, a lifelong commitment for a lasting relationship. Its beautiful living a life full of happiness and respect, sharing together in their hopes and dreams in most intimate way. But some of them don’t want to work it that way. They don’t have that divine guidance to see them through.

It is a joy for a happy marriage to have a loving and respectful children under their care living with respect and dedication to be a responsible adults. The problem in some of the married couple is their desire to opt out from the responsibility as parents. Their children are the one suffering from a broken relationship.

A crisis in child rearing was the result of a troubled marriage. The school were given the task of teaching their children instead of them about civility, respect and good virtue. Their own obligation as parents was now obsolete, their confidence and competence were in question.

As the children grow up, they were heavily influenced by the things they saw and the condition in which they lived. Their values were shaped by their experiences and the perspective of their parents. Children were more difficult to reach now and not easy to teach regarding values. Their concentration and perseverance were more fragile, their language and behavior more provocative.

Children seemingly incapable of following direction in listening while someone speaks. They cannot allow not being the center of attention. People around perceived teens as disrespectful, rude, irresponsible and wild. Why it happened? Who is to blame?

While parents have the opportunity to be the greatest influence to the lives of their children but it doesn’t always happen. When couple dissolved their marriage, they often justify their divorce that it is better for their children but they deprived significant amount of time with them.

Another cause of failure in rearing a child was that in our modern way of life, it is common for both husband and wife to work outside their home. The reason includes the perceive need for greater income and the mistaken assumption that having a career outside the home is more important than rearing children.

We believed it is now time for parents to change the way they look at their marriage vow. Children need their care and attention. The price is too high if parents are not ready for a change.