HOW PATIENT ARE YOU?

If you are impatient, you’re apt to be rude. Bad word comes out in your mouth without restraint. You spoke sharply and hurt somebody. Your behavior make others feel angry and uncooperative because they know they were being insulted by you. You disregarded their feeling believing it was just right for you. If they tell you in the same manner, can you allow it to get into you? What will be your immediate reaction? Are you happy or angry? You know it is not good. Then why not change your ways?

To be impatient, you have to develop a system of calming you down in a stressful situation. Learn how to control them.

An impatient person don’t like to waste time.  He always in a hurry without allowing  a possibility of delay. Are you one of them?

If you are with the group, humor them with funny stories while waiting to keep your impatience at bay until the delay is over. If you are too irritated and failed to think clearly because your bad mood is governing you, then let your imagination wander to see the beauty of nature. The purpose is to control the negative feeling  inside you and help to ease the tension that started to drain away from you.

In controlling your impatient is to examine the reason of your behavior. If it is only temporary, you annoyance will come to pass. But if you are always irritable and abrupt, maybe something is wrong in your head that need immediate counselling.

CAN YOU BE A GOOD FRIEND?

Young people like you felt proud of having a friend who are loyal and trustworthy whom you confides without fear. That’s the kind of person dependable in time of crisis.

Be kind in your assessment to others. Speak to them highly. The more you see them positively, the more you tend to be friendly with them. If you deal with people act as if they are already your long time friend. Acting this way learns you to be positive and more supportive to others. This will make you a friend worth having  whom others truly enjoy with you and be proud of.

Don’t attempt to change it to your own liking. There was no one exactly like you in the world. You liked them because you have the same thing in common. For the interest of others who look at things differently deepens your understanding and widen your circle of friends.

No one is perfect. Each of us has its own strength and uniqueness and weaknesses, too. Accepting them and understanding them will make you a better person. Don’t pretend to be a kind person you are not used to  be. BE Honest. Accept any mistakes you have done. Don’t hide them. They will appreciate if you are honest.

By joining any group will be your chances to make friends similar to your interest, likes and dislikes. It is a sure way of having many friends. Maturing your relationship with others will find happiness in doing an act of friendship. To win friends you must become attractive and socially poise as possible. Learn the trade to be socially acceptable to them.

Making other people feel good is a part of being gracious, and act learned only through repeated practice in actual life situation.