WHY A CHILD MISBEHAVE?
Many parents wondered what is the best discipline they can do to a child who showed feeling of resistance against them. Most parents does not understand their role in disciplining their children. They pay more attention when their child misbehave. That is the reason why a child misbehave more because they wanted to be recognize to the feeling and attention they crave.
There are simple steps to be done that will help their children of their feeling of resistance.
You can reward them with praise if they done something good. Acknowledge their good behavior. You can hugh them to show that you showed concern to their welfare. Smile with them to ease the sign of misbehavior. Talk to them more often so that you will know their problem. It must consist direction. Don’t alienate yourself to them. It will make the matter worse. Telling stories is a good way to build a closer relationship. Children like their parents to tell them stories most interesting. That will encourage them to tell things about himself.
Doing activities with them can bring a good result. Play with them, a fun they always like best. Build a trust. Don’t promise something you cannot keep. Win their heart. Encourage them to follow a good example. Let them know that you love them. Make a way to discourage a behavior by telling them that a good behavior is always welcome by GOD. As HIM want their children to do more good than harm.
Listen to their feelings and try to find a way to overcome their resentment. Don’t always argue with them and push them hard. It will only make things worse. Be flexible. Respect your child privacy as they need a place most comfortable to them.
This steps are only fraction to the many ways to solve the problem about child’s tantrum, anger, refusal and resentment to their parents. If this can be manage effectively the child will response positvely and your effort will not be wasted.
