As a child, it is your role to respect your parents. You are angry with your parents because you wanted to do things they don’t allow. You always late to go home. You were  with your friends. You don’t even help your parents in the household chores because you don’t like it. What you like is to be with them most of the time. You can’t blame your parents. What they did is best for you. What you did is only best for yourself and nothing else even if is not good for you.

Why not talk to your parents openly? It is now time for you to tell them what’s in your mind. Put an end to your conflict with them, they know better than you do. Ask your parents what are the things they don’t like for you to do. Ask them their limit for you so that you will be guided to avoid confrontation with them.

Give them a chance to know you better. If  your parents ask you what you were doing in school, answer them properly. Don’t lie to them. Be honest with yourself. Show them that you are a good child. Your parents are flexible at all times. They can grant privileges for you to enjoy. Don’t abuse their giving you limited freedom because this was the reason why they don’t like your ways in living with your own. Remember that you are not yet old enough to do for your own. You are still under their direction and protection. You do not have that liberty to go against them.

To have a close relationship with your parents, tell them whatever you did in your life the good things you did so that they can be proud of you. Let them exercise their rule as parents. And do also what is proper and the right things to do. Most of this misunderstanding is not coming from them but is coming directly from you. Remember you will become parents someday. You will understand how parents tried their best for the good of their child.

If time comes that you made a mistake in your decision that affected you, who will you to turn to help you? Parents are always have an open arms to welcome you even how stubborn you are because you are their son. Think twice. Ask yourself, am I right what I did? Am I old enough to ask independence to decide the best for myself?

You still need direction from them. Direction that will change your way of life to be better. Understand them, they will understand you.