If you are impatient, you’re apt to be rude. Bad word comes out in your mouth without restraint. You spoke sharply and hurt somebody. Your behavior make others feel angry and uncooperative because they know they were being insulted by you. You disregarded their feeling believing it was just right for you. If they tell you in the same manner, can you allow it to get into you? What will be your immediate reaction? Are you happy or angry? You know it is not good. Then why not change your ways?
To be impatient, you have to develop a system of calming you down in a stressful situation. Learn how to control them.
An impatient person don’t like to waste time. He always in a hurry without allowing a possibility of delay. Are you one of them?
If you are with the group, humor them with funny stories while waiting to keep your impatience at bay until the delay is over. If you are too irritated and failed to think clearly because your bad mood is governing you, then let your imagination wander to see the beauty of nature. The purpose is to control the negative feeling inside you and help to ease the tension that started to drain away from you.
In controlling your impatient is to examine the reason of your behavior. If it is only temporary, you annoyance will come to pass. But if you are always irritable and abrupt, maybe something is wrong in your head that need immediate counselling.
